Living in Chiang Mai is, for most expats, a rewarding and comfortable experience. The city offers excellent healthcare, a relaxed pace of life, and a strong sense of community. But one area that is often overlooked is planning for the later stages of life. It’s not an easy subject, and many people put it off, especially when living abroad.
The reality is that being in a foreign country adds a layer of complexity. Different laws, language barriers, and unfamiliar systems can create confusion at exactly the wrong time. Making a few clear decisions in advance can remove a huge burden from family members and ensure your wishes are respected.
This page brings together some straightforward guidance to help you think things through. There’s a short video to introduce the key ideas, a set of simple checklists you can review or download, and links to relevant official information. Nothing heavy, just practical steps you can take at your own pace.
It’s not about dwelling on the end. It’s about making sure that when the time comes, things are handled the way you would want, with clarity and dignity, for both you and the people around you.
This page lives at https://www.chiangmaibook.com/endoflife
Videos
At the end of this video, I’ll show you the small room at the back of Maharaj Nakorn Chiang Mai Hospital, right next to the city morgue, where small services can be held, and then the Chiang Mai public crematorium which has three full-size cremation units and one smaller one.
This was filmed in Borsang Village, just east of Chiang Mai, starting at the local Buddhist temple and then following the funeral procession as it moved through the town to the crematorium.
End of Days : Government Advice
Posters (free to download)
Amazon (eBooks and PaperBack)
Death Cafe
A Death Cafe is a scheduled non-profit get-together for the purpose of talking about death over food and drink, usually tea and cake. The idea originates with the Swiss sociologist and anthropologist Bernard Crettaz, who organized the first café mortel in 2004.
At Death Café we make a taboo subject normal through casual conversation. “Our objective is to increase awareness of death with a view to helping people make the most of their (finite) lives.”
A Death Cafe is a group directed discussion of death with no agenda, objectives or themes. It is a discussion group rather than a grief support or counselling session.
Our Death Cafes are always offered:
- On a not for profit basis
- In an accessible, respectful and confidential space
- With no intention of leading people to any conclusion, product or course of action
- Alongside refreshing drinks and nourishing food – and cake! [Although we cannot cannot guarantee this ;-) ]
Check out the Facebook page for the date of the next meeting and the venue.